Whenever I hear the news saying, so and so person is raped by 4-5 people when
alone, person is raped by her step father , by her boyfriend and friends… by her
co-workers etc….like this we read so many cases everyday… I wonder that why are
we even called as “humans”!!!.. Even animals are far better then humans in many
matters… Actually… humans should be called as animals and vice verse… because the
culture, the way we live Is too cruel,worst than any living creatures in this world.
What is a RAPE? According to a source, “RAPE is a type of sexual assault
usually involving sexual intercourse or other forms of sexual penetration carried
out against a person without that person’s consent.this act may be carried out by
physical force,coercion,abuse of authority, or against a person who is weaker or
incapable of giving valid consent.” But a weird kind of question arises in my mind
that , do only men are responsible for this? Why are only men are blamed for all the
cases happened so far?… I strongly say that even women are responsible for the rape
cases in one or the other ways… let me say it clearly that “ Not all MEN and WOMEN
are same, this blog is focused only on those who are called rapists, and people who
are promoting rape culture in the indirect ways”.
An average of 25000 rape cases happen every year…. if I could
ask, actually why do we need to rape? Is that necessary? If a person is that horny or
turned on… pay and have sex.. there are people out in the society called prostitutes
who can satisfy all your deeds and needs of sex, but you don’t have any right in
abusing a innocent people’s life forcefully not even the god… I don’t whether you all
read the holy books or not, there’s saying in those books which says “according to it
having sex in illegal ways to cruel in nature, the people who masturbates are also
called as sin people on the earth, there’s a different kind of punishments are given to
them in the hell which I do not like to mention in here”… this generation is growing in
population ,technology.. but it is leaving behind its precious culture and humanity…
Even the men are experiencing the sexual assault by the society, but not many
cases are reported publicly because men feel embarrassed to say they were raped or
sexually assaulted… its a kind of shame to the male community who are always made
dominant over female community. According to a statistical source, one in every 10
every rapes are male victims, but this isn’t highlighted in the medias? Why?, where is
the so called equality among men and women? Let me highlight some of the main
reasons for the rape cases happening in the society,
1. Blaming provoking clothing by people
2. Acceptance of domestic violence
3. Lack of public safety
4. Encouraging rape victims in indirect ways for compromising rape cases
5. A sluggish court system in India.
6. Low status of women in the society. Etc…
Yes, I believe there are the cases reported form 4-8 month old
baby to the 100 year old women who will be perfectly dressed but still they are being
assaulted… most of the cases are being reported of the age group 15-40… and its sadto hear that so many of the cases haven’t been came out because of the fear of the
society living among them.. let me talk about age group of most rape victims.
In many cases victims are raped by a group of people , or by only one person when
he/she is alone when no one else is there around them. Sometimes it provokes the
man’s mind to do such things who will be having such a mindset all the time… I
strongly stand against those rapists who assault on children and old age people..
they should not be spared at any cost if they are found, I don’t know what is the
sexual satisfaction they will get by assaulting them…
Do you all think, women/teenage girls are not responsible for the
rape cases or sexual assaults? Yes they there responsible indirectly, but these all are
not seen by the people neither the society nor the court.. because all these days it
was see that he/she is raped and didn’t even gave a thought that what made that
person to think like that or what provoked him during that time. I think nowadays
everyone uses the Instagram , Facebook kind of social medias , even its been said
that it is the Instagram era too… I have come across many many accounts in that
mostly of teenage girls of the age 18-30… who have huge no of followers to them,
neither they are the celebrities nor any social workers nor writers nothing they are
just the same school,college girls like us. What do you think it is possible to have such
huge many followers. If you look into their profile… it will be filled of girls photos from
all over the state or country…even its funny to hear that same girl photos are found
in 10-20 different accounts of the same kind with huge followers list. Do u think
admin of that group steals them and posts. No not at all… they have been sent by the
girl itself. To gain the followers.
Just because you have a attractive breasts and butts, a glowing face
doesn’t make you a model or beautiful girl/woman in the society instead you
showing off your worthless shitty character to the society, in case if you are trying to
show off your body. Ha even I have been heard saying that “it’s the girl/woman wish
to wear the dress of her wish…” yes I agree on that because this Is a independent
country and we are free to do anything of our will. But why the hell are you showing
it to the society ha? If you are that happy, keep that happiness privately..do wear
such provoking dresses inside 4 walls.it is not necessary to show it to the public to
become famous about their beauty and all.. why do you think there were not even a
single rape cases reported 5-6 centuries ago? Do you think they were not beautiful to
show It to the public? Actually they were much much beautiful woman than this
generation, during those times people were focusing more on their dressing sense,
culture than this fucking getting famous and beauty. These kind of photos in the
social medias provokes many men… we shouldn’t disagree on the fact that sexual
satisfaction is must in human life to have healthy life. But it should be had in legal
ways, not illegally.
There were times women/girls used to wear the full dress to protect
their body private parts and now the generation had grown to that extent some of
them remove their dress half naked for the photo shoot just to get famous and to be
attracted by the people. Girls/women don’t have any thing special in them what man
is not having, they have all the parts just like many has… a extra part which highlights on their body is the breasts.. you all shouldn’t use that part to gain the
publicity… instead just think it as a extra flesh on your body, through which you are
gonna feed your baby if you get married… according to a source man gets attracted
to a women by her beauty and what we call boobs most of the times… I don’t
understand if you can’t wear the dresses covering at least these kind of parts then its
not wrong in getting provoked or turning on by men if they see them. And no society
scolds them no court looks into these kind of matters when a rape case has been filed.
because they are “GIRLS”… let me be frank , indirectly some of such kind of girls
which I described above are provoking the sexual assaulting or raping.. then why Is
not rapes happening on men, however aged they are they wont show their body
like them… yes I agree on the fact that “ first the men need to change the way of
perception/ seeing women/girls” and in that case even the should/must agree to
that “ women/girls must wear full dress, not half naked” again let me say.. these is
not for all… only to those people who belongs to such category which I described
above… don’t think me wrong that I have targeted all the women.. no no not at all..
I appreciate those people in some ways who satisfies their needs
by paying not like assaulting/raping… society is seeing the assaults on men too but
are not being known to the people… because it is always highlighted all these years
that women/girls are being assaulted not men… this thinking has been fixed in the
minds of people… we can’t help with that. Well if you ask me what we can do as a
responsible citizens of this country to stop/prevent this kind of assaults or rapes…
according to me here are few ways which we can prevent.
As I said earlier men should change the view of perception and women
should not expose the half naked body of theirs
Strict law should be framed in the country against the victims.
Else those victims should be handed over to the public . they will teach
him/her the perfect lesson so they he/she can’t even think of doing that again..
In worst cases…. our law should follow the rules of other countries where
victims are shot dead on the spot within an hour or two of the assault or rape.
Victim’s hands should be cut off , so that he shouldn’t be able to take hold of
other person again for raping.
Victim’s legs should be cut off , so that he cant force himself on other
person’s forcefully and illegally.
Sex awareness should be given to all the age people starting from when a
girl matures to till the man/woman dies.
Sex should be made legal in the country with respect , only in the case if the
country is not ready to focus on its precious vast culture.
Such kind of provoking persons on the social medias need to ban their
accounts and to be warned…
Everyone should learn to protect themselves against the other person…
should always be careful regarding their surroundings…
Immediate action should be taken by the law if such cases happens not after
that person dies after suffering…
Such people are not worth letting them alive even after committing such
sin/cruel things… they should be executed in worst case of situation because India is country of 138cr. Population,it will loose nothing by execution of one
person.
In simple let me put it.. “ real men don’t even think of
assaulting/raping a female , and in the same way real women don’t provoke
this assault/rape indirectly by their way of dressing or by their actions”… Be
like real men and Women… as how they should be… this is mainly focused on
the people belonging to those categories which described briefly…sincere
apologies from my side if somethings seems inconvenient/harsh to u..
THANK YOU for reading this patiently….
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